Everybody’s Free
“Don’t worry about the future
Or worry, but know that worrying
Is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum.”
This quote from one of my favorite songs, “Everybody’s Free (To Wear Sunscreen),” perfectly encapsulates a common sentiment among high school students. During my visits to various schools and speaking engagements, I’ve noticed that many young people are deeply concerned about their future. They often fear making the wrong decisions about their careers and lives and overthink how it will affect their futures.
While I can relate to their woes on a personal level, I too was once in their shoes, I can now say that making mistakes is part of the journey. And while that’s scary for someone who has thus far been told what to do and how to do it, it’s the first step toward independence. For many decisions, the key is to make them on your own. To collect relevant information from trusted sources and surround yourself with people who inspire and uplift you.
It’s important to seek advice from those who are where you aspire to be someday. Conversely, avoid those who bring you down.
We are the average of the five people we spend the most time with, so strive to be in the company of those smarter and better than you. Don’t dull your shine or minimize your potential to fit the people around you. Write down your likes and dislikes, envision where you see yourself in ten years, and pursue that vision wholeheartedly. Even if your path diverges from what your parents or friends expect, it’s better to try to achieve your goals (and maybe fail) rather than live with regret.
Remember, it’s okay to change direction. If you find yourself enrolled in medicine, for example, because of parental pressure, believe that there’s always time to pivot toward something that truly moves you. Whatever you choose to do, give it your all. To achieve extraordinary results, you must think and act differently from the majority. Strive to be better and be the change you want to see.
This passion for pondering life’s big questions is why I love being invited to present at schools and universities. Often, the questions from students aren’t about business or career paths, but about life itself. These young minds need guidance to find their way, and I cherish these opportunities because I aim to break the notion that one must stick to a single path for years. These students need to feel free and unconfined. They need to be aware of the myriad options available to them—options that may not have been as accessible to us growing up, but which we can now offer them.
What’s more inspiring than that?